Kudos to the lovely men of LiveSteez! You've officially opened a can of worms that was so on the shelf. But let's be fair and present the perspective of the sistas, namely those with a job! A little healthy debate, if you will. Brothas, please don't cry the blues because you got played by a women you thought was feeling you, because y'all are guilty of the same! Nowadays we date with the same caution because there are scrubs out there who prey on everyday business women, who have everything in place except for their love life. Then comes the impostor partner, who is really the guy that ends up "crashing at your place for a few days," trying to seduce his way into a live-in position. Employment, or lack there of, is the focal point of most of the signs that your man is a scrub. Fellas, if you're presently without work you may want to skip this read and surf the classifieds. But the rest of you scrubs don't worry, we'll try not to rip you too hard.